My Pronouns & Identity
Information about my preferred pronouns, name pronunciation, and identity terms
Name Pronunciation
Zahara /ZAH-hah-rah/
Pronouns
she/her
✓ Preferred
they/them
⚠️ Okay
he/him
❌ Disrespectful
it/its
❌ Disrespectful
Usage: I prefer "she/her" pronouns in most contexts. "They/them" is acceptable but not preferred. Please avoid "he/him" and "it/its" as they are misgendering.
Identity Terms
Honorifics
✓ ms.
✓ ma'am
✓ madam
⚠️ comrade
❌ sai
❌ mx.
❌ mir
❌ zam
❌ shazam
⚠️ sir
⚠️ mr.
Person & Family Descriptions
✓ sis
✓ girl
✓ woman
✓ lady
⚠️ person
⚠️ buddy
⚠️ pal
⚠️ sib
⚠️ enby
⚠️ dude
⚠️ man
⚠️ bro
⚠️ boy
Compliments
✓ beautiful
✓ pretty
⚠️ cute
⚠️ hot
⚠️ sexy
⚠️ handsome
Relationship Descriptions
✓ wife
✓ girlfriend
⚠️ friend
⚠️ partner
⚠️ kissmate
⚠️ darling
⚠️ beloved
⚠️ boo
⚠️ joyfriend
⚠️ enbyfriend
⚠️ boyfriend
⚠️ husband
Terms of Endearment
✓ dear
✓ honey
✓ sweetheart
✓ love
⚠️ babe
⚠️ baby
⚠️ sweetie
⚠️ cutie
❌ buddy
⚠️ dude
⚠️ bro
Professional Titles
✓ Ms. Zahara
✓ Zahara
❌ Mr. Zahara
⚠️ Sir
Gender Identity Terms
✓ woman
✓ female
✓ girl
⚠️ person
⚠️ individual
❌ non-binary
❌ enby
⚠️ man
⚠️ male
⚠️ boy
Nicknames
✓ Zahara
⚠️ Zah
⚠️ Zara
❌ Zaharie
❌ Zahari
Additional Notes
Context Matters: Some terms may be acceptable in certain contexts (like close friends) but not in others (like professional settings). When in doubt, ask or use the most respectful option.
Corrections: If you make a mistake with my pronouns or terms, a quick correction and moving on is appreciated. I understand that mistakes happen, and I appreciate the effort to get it right.
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